I have been married for 6 years, 2 children. We were unhappy almost from the moment the first baby popped up. We have discussed divorce https://onlinedivorcer.com/online-divorce-idaho several times over the years. We tried couples therapy. He had to seek therapy for himself as it became clear in couples therapy that he needed to help himself first before we could get help. He didn't, and it's been over a year. I heal for myself. I just finished.
The financial aspect of all this is the only thing holding me back. I always made more money than him and supported him and our family during 2 years of unemployment. We have a mortgaged house, 2 cars and a lot of credit card debt.
Should I give him money every month? Will it completely destroy me financially?